No workplace is perfect. Managers berate subordinates in meetings. Colleagues make snide remarks about each other. Even worse, people send emails, texts, or tweets without giving sufficient consideration to how the messages will be received. This makes our insensitivities more public and all the more egregious.
Even seasoned executives aren’t immune from foot-in-mouth disease. Tony Hayward, the former CEO of British Petroleum, famously complained that he “wanted his life back” in the midst of the 2010 oil spill. (He later apologized to the families of the workers who had died in the tragedy, as well as the thousands of people whose lives were totally disrupted.)
It’s time for an apology. But apologies can be tricky and can backfire. Without some forethought, an apology — public or private — is no guarantee we’ll redeem ourselves. Sometimes, people aren’t ready to forgive.
More often than not, however, our apology fails because we apologize the wrong way. We make the apology all about ourselves. We justify, explain, and coat it with our own polish.
This article explores how to craft an effective apology, and suggests important elements that should be included so that you restore trust and rebuild relationships.
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The complete article includes these important concepts:
- Don’t Justify
- Acknowledge Their Feelings and Values
- Restore Common Ground
- Know Your Audience
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